It’s a jungle out there… and as the apps have become the main means of chatting, connecting and meeting, the dating landscape has changed beyond recognition in recent years.

 

And yet… never before have so many of us been so dissatisfied with our dating lives. The apps, often touted as a way to bring us together, have actually in many ways done the opposite. 

 

Like it or not, they’re here to stay. But if you’re feeling frustrated, bored, lonely or isolated by our current online dating culture, this coaching course is for you.

 

Find out how to better navigate app culture, dating and relationships, with tips on: 

 

• Insights into why you’re attracting the types of guys you do, and not attracting the kinds of guys you want - and ways to change that

 

• Why you might feel invisible or ignored on dating sites, and what to do about it
   

• Creating a more authentic, honest, attention-grabbing profile that better reflects who you are, and what you want
   

• Ways to minimise the time-consuming frustrations of trawling through dating apps, and ways to make your searches more effective
   

• Self development and mindset hacks, tips and tricks, to help you become the person you’d want to date 
   

• Insights into why gay men often tend to shy away from intimacy and vulnerability, why that happens, and what to do about it
   

• What to do if you suddenly get the 'ick' about someone you're dating
   

• Exploring the pull towards ‘hot sex’ over ‘warm sex’, and what to do if you’re caught in the trap of forgoing more intimate, fulfilling sex for something more casual/fleeting
   

• Loneliness, horniness and craving: how to navigate each of these key dating drivers
   

• Why the guys you meet so often end up in the ‘friend-zone’ - either after 1 or 2 dates, or soon after you’ve hooked up – and how to change that
   

• How to get a healthier perspective on and handle ‘rejection’
   

• Ghosting, catfishing, breadcrumbing, and ways to navigate app perils and pitfalls
   

• Strategies to keep a conversation going, and convert online chatting to real-world dates
   

• Communication pointers, for fun, easy, authentic conversations
   

• Crib sheets with conversation openers (and closers), thought-provoking questions and ice-breakers to spark conversation. Just copy and paste them to your app’s saved phrases
   

• Navigating the apps/dating scene as an older gay man
   

• Strategies to help you limit usage if you find yourself stuck scrolling through the apps more than you’d like
   

• Ideas for how to meet and connect with single guys away from the apps
   

• How to get more comfortable with the idea of being single - and conversely, how that can transform your ability to be in a relationship when one does come along.

 

PLUS: fortnightly 1-on-1 coaching sessions, where we’ll: 
 

• discuss aspects of what’s come up for you during your learnings

• explore the dating barriers that are holding you back

• talk in more detail about your thoughts, feelings, beliefs, habits, values, goals and dreams

• figure out what you really, really want

• put together a step-by-step action plan to get you from where you are now, to where you want to be